Delusional Woman Chastises Young Man For Not Wanting To Go Out With Her Daughter

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    Rectangle - Posted by u/ingolos 9 hours ago AITA for telling my mom's friend the reason I'm not interested in her daughter
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    Font - So I stopped by my moms house to pick up some stuff yesterday. Her friend was over because they had just gotten back from shopping. I've known my moms friend "Carla" for a while. She has a daughter my age Carla has hinted before about introducing us.
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    Font - Well I was running some stuff back and fourth to my car and I heard Carla talking to my mom about how she just wished her daughter would get her life together and meet someone nice.
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    Font - Then she called my name and asked if I'm seeing anyone, to which I said no. Then she was all like "you should take daughter out sometime I'm sure you'd hit it off, she needs to meet a nice guy like you". I was like "uhh I'm not sure I'm kinda busy". Then I went back in my old room.
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    Font - I've heard enough from both Carla and my mom about her daughter to know that she's not my type. Her daughter was in a 2 year college for 4 years and then dropped out, which is normal and not bad. Then she had a decent job and quit because "it was boring".
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    Font - She has a drug problem and is in and out of rehab, and she bounces from one guy to the next and somehow gets them to pay her bills.
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    Font - A while passed and I got what I came for and was saying goodbye to my mom and Carla started badgering me. "So when are you going to take her out? I'll let her know" I said "like I said I'm kinda busy right now" "too busy to take a nice girl out on a friday?" "Yea and I'm not really interested, sorry " "well why not?
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    Font - She's a nice pretty girl, you'd be good for her" I was getting annoyed because I felt cornered and looked at my mom for help but she didn't do anything so I said "yea maybe but that doesn't mean she'd be good for me." "What's that supposed to mean?" "Wel| I'm not really into girls that don't have a job and have addiction problems ".
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    Font - She flipped out and said "she can't believe I'd be so rude, she's known me since I was a kid and she was just trying to fix me up with her daughter. I should take it as a compliment instead of insulting her daughter I could have just said no".
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    Font - I left and my mom called me later and said that it was really mean to say that to Carla when she was just trying to be nice. That I came off like a snobby ahole even if I wasn't interested I could have been nicer about it. ΑΙΤΑ
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: Because I didn't have to be so honest and confrontational I could have just said something like maybe or one day instead of being rude about it.
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    Font - Crafty-Addition9105 · 9h 22 Asshole Aficionado [16] "I could have just said no." Which is exactly what you did. NTA, OP.
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    Font - Ropeslug · 9h Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA. It wasn't their place to pressure you into a date in the first place. You were direct and honest. They straight up asked why you didn't want to go on a date with her and then they didn't like the honest answer. Not your problem.
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    Font - DrMonkeyLady · 9h Asshole Aficionado [10] NTA. You literally tried to just say no several times and she wouldn't let up. She pushed for an answer and she got one..

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